Finding the Right Life Partner: A Blend of Love, Values, and Family Respect

 1. What kind of girl do I want?

  • The girl should be simple.
  • She should have a good character.
  • She should be beautiful.
  • She should not have bad habits, like drinking or making reels on Instagram daily. It would be better if she doesn’t use social media like Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, or any other similar platforms.
  • She should not have a temper.
  • She should love and respect her parents. For example, if she loves me a lot and I suggest eloping because her parents may not agree, she should not agree to that. No matter how important I am, she should not go against her parents. Whatever happens, her first priority should be her parents. That’s the kind of girl I want.

2. Do you prefer a chubby girl or a slim girl?

She should neither be too chubby nor too slim, somewhere in the middle would be good.

3. Should the girl be from your caste?

I don’t have any problem, but my parents would, because in the village people would speak ill of them, and they wouldn’t like it. I don’t want to cause them any sorrow.

4. Love marriage or arranged marriage?

  • I would prefer an arranged marriage or a love + arranged marriage, but not just a love marriage. If I like a girl and she also likes me, I would inform my parents and marry with their consent. This kind of marriage, I call a love + arranged marriage. But if someone falls in love and runs away to get married, going against their parents, I call that a love marriage.
  • An arranged marriage happens according to the parents’ choice, and I would never refuse that because their happiness is my happiness.